so what is a "save the date?"
save the dates are basically a pre invitation letting your guests know that you are getting married and when you are doing so and giving them time to prepare with things like time of work if needed.
save the dates are generally sent out 12 months before the wedding and should really only be sent to the guests you intend to invite for the whole day.
now whilst save the dates are not compolsarry they are a polite notice to let people know your plans and plan accordingly espically if you are getting married at a busy time of year such as in the summer holidays or around Christmas or new year.
wedding invitations...
these are usually sent out 6 month before the wedding and should contain as much information as possible such as...
the names of the people you are inviting, if you are having a child free wedding, is it a full day invite or just an evening invitation.
with regards to the times put a time that is at least 15 minutes before the ceremony to allow people to get seated before the bride arrives!
have a clear RSVP date and include a phone number/email address or a return card and address for people to RSVP to.
if the dates passes and you still have guests that have not RSVP'd then don't be afraid to chase them up to get an answer and be firm you have a deadline to! and the last thing you need is unexpected people turning up expecting to be seated and fed.
now relax and enjoy the rest of the planning!
love Emma and Chariece x
